50 Ways to Encourage Anyone Anywhere at Any Time
People need encouragement, but sometimes we over-think things. Encouraging people does not have to take a ton of time or a lot of money. Instead, here are 50 ways you can encourage nearly anyone at any time. Enjoy the list, then add your own suggestions in the comments.
1. Make a phone call out of the blue.
2. Smile
3. Give a sincere compliment (no flattery allowed!)
4. Make a small donation to their favorite charity, school, etc.
5. Praise their children/grandchildren/parents
6. Invite them over for dinner
7. Send a small floral arrangement…just because
8. Find a chore that needs to be done and just do it
9. Leave a $20 on the door with a note reading, “Supper’s on us tonight”
10. Post an encouraging Bible verse or quote on their Facebook wall
11. Tell a clean joke
12. Listen
13. Visit a loved one of theirs who is in the hospital or a local assisted living home
14. Make a “double” recipe tonight and take the extra to them tomorrow
15. Send a card on the anniversary of them losing a loved one
16. Pray for them
17. Offer a night of free baby-sitting/dog-sitting/house-sitting
18. Have your children make a small “What I Love about …” project and give it to them
19. Send a private tweet or Facebook message asking for a prayer request
20. Mail a hand-written note (remember those?)
21. Give a gift subscription to a favorite magazine for 1 year
22. Gift a Kindle book [may I suggest this one?] or Amazon gift card
23. Send a small ($5) e-card to a coffee house or restaurant with good desserts
24. Walk a fresh loaf of bread or batch of brownies down to their house
25. Have an old-fashioned talk on the front porch
26. Create a blog post or Facebook note honoring them
27. Remember their birthday
28. Hug
29. Have a small gift (balloons, for example) delivered to their workplace
30. Ask them to stay for a nightly family devotional
31. Pick a random day and just ask, “What can I do to help you today?”
32. Volunteer for a charity or organization they love
33. Give them a note from your child with their ball schedule (or recital, play, etc. schedule) saying, “I’d love for you to come!”
34. Invite them to church. Even if they don’t come, people appreciate that you care enough to invite
35. Leave an anonymous gift (like a potted plant) on the porch
36. Ask about their kids/grandkids and be ready to listen
37. Go out to eat with them
38. Call them by name
39. Remember your “please’s,” “thank you’s,” sir’s,” and “ma’am’s.”
40. Treat their children with honor
41. Attend the funeral when they lose a loved one
42. If it is too far away, send a gift of some kind to let them know you are there in spirit
43. Help coordinate some part of their life when a tragedy happens (travel plans, meals, or child care are just some suggestions)
44. Text regularly, just to say hello
45. Encourage them in their work. Treat it as valuable and important
46. “Just happen” to buy an extra ticket to the ball game or concert and invite them
47. Take care of their house when they are gone on vacation
48. Go the extra mile in any service you might do for them
49. Be joyful and peaceful around them
50. Did I mention, pray for them?
QUESTION: What else would you add? What almost universally brings encouragement to others?
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2 Comments
David A Dixon
“Listen” should be numero uno.
Adam Faughn
It is probably the most commonly overlooked “easy” way to encourage!