Church Life,  Family

Praying for the Hurting This Christmas

“It’s the most wonderful time of the year.” So goes the often-played Christmas song that is beloved by many. For a lot of folks, the holiday season–especially Christmas–is the time of year they most look forward to. There are traditions galore that lend themselves to a happy time for so many people.8192128105_462cc2884a_b

However, for some others Christmas is a very difficult time. They may enjoy a lot of the traditions, but there is a heart that is aching inside. As family and friends enjoy get-togethers and other traditions, they usually have fun, but it is tempered by hurt and pain.

This holiday season, I want us to remember them in prayer. This is by no means an exhaustive list, but here are some who need our prayers.

Recent Divorcees. This is especially true for the innocent party. They remember special gifts or how they had started some new Christmas traditions. Now, those dreams are dashed and they know there is one fewer gift under the tree.

Widows/Widowers. I have talked with some widows, especially in the first year of their loss, who literally dreaded Christmas. There was so much emotion invested in this holiday, and now that is gone. Each year, that place at the table is empty, and it hurts.

Others Who Has Lost Loved Ones. Some families have lost children this year. Can you imagine the pain of not being able to buy gifts and see those little eyes twinkle on Christmas morning? Others have lost a parent or dear friend. They will hurt when they do not see that person around the table.

Doctors and Nurses. I put these on the list, thinking particularly of those who must work on Christmas day. Those who work in nursing homes or assisted living homes also need to be considered. They will do their best to spread some Christmas cheer in places where that is not easy to do.

There are many others who could be added, but I’d like to hear your additions to this list. In the comments, share other people who need special prayers this time of year.

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4 Comments

  • Melissa Bridges

    I know this one gets tossed around a lot…but for good reason: military service members. Especially those who are deployed and away from their families. Having gone through many holidays (this one included) through the years, separated from my husband, it is definitely prayers that have gotten us through. So, there’s one to add. 🙂

  • Adam Faughn

    Melissa, I’m glad you commented! I actually had military and families on my list, but decided to leave it off, just hoping someone would leave that as a comment!!!

    We will be thinking of, and praying for, these families as well.

  • Pisa

    I’m thinking of those who recently lost jobs and can’t afford to buy presents for their children because what money they have will be used for their basic needs (food, shelter, etc). As a single parent, I found myself homeless almost 10 years ago with a 1-year old. Some of our church family and friends came to our rescue and every Christmas thereafter I look for people struggling (particularly single parents) and help with what I can. And every Christmas thereafter I count my blessings, particularly having our own home 🙂 God is so good to us and thank you for the reminder to seek out those who need love and prayers!

  • Adam Faughn

    Pisa,

    What an important addition to the list. I’m so glad that you had those around you who were willing to help, and thank you for reminding us all of the “simple” blessings that we often take for granted.