Book Review: "Point Man" by Steve Farrar
It’s rare that I find a book that I simply can’t put down. I love to read, but I get tired quite quickly, too.
Point Man is one of those books, though, that I could not put down. If you ever look to the right-hand side of the page, you’ll notice a list of “what I’m reading.” I try to keep that as up-to-date as possible. Point Man never got to that list because I started reading it Saturday afternoon and finished reading late last night.
The book deals with being a better husband and/or father. In fact, the subtitle is How a Man Can Lead His Family. The book simply brings men back into their God-given role of being the head of the household. It is practical and very well-written. It is also very frank (but, guys, let’s be honest, sometimes we need to be told something in a frank manner!).
Farrar has a way of showing that he has done his research, but he also keeps the material readable. Nothing is too difficult to grasp, but everything in the book is needed and helpful. Suggestions that are most helpful dot every chapter.
The jewel of the book is chapter 9: “How to Raise Masculine Sons and Feminine Daughters.” The chapter deals openly with the fact that a vast majority of homosexuals became such because they did not see a masculine male role model in the home.
If you are a husband/father or are planning on being one, please do yourself a favor. Spend less than $15 and get a copy of this book. Amazon.com has it for less than $12 (plus shipping). Click here to order. If you are a preacher and are planning on preaching a series on the home, parenting or just being “God’s man,” this would be an excellent volume to have at arm’s reach. Be careful, however, or you’ll find yourself wanting to preach directly from this book! Farrar is not a member of the Lord’s church, but there are very few theological points in the book with which one will disagree.
My friend, Wes Hazel, recommended this book and actually bought me a copy for a “shower” present. I truly appreciate it.
And, if I may, let me add this “P.S.” to this review. I am thankful daily that I grew up in a home with a true “point man.” My dad showed me the teachings of this book without having read it. He knew how to be a leader in the home, and I’m thankful. If I can be half the dad he was (and continues to be), Mary Carol and Turner will be fine.
