Family
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Have You Looked in the Mirror Lately?
Jim and I went out for breakfast recently and, while we were enjoying our breakfast, a woman came in who, I would guess, was middle aged. She was rather large and was wearing really short shorts and a skimpy top. The thought crossed my mind – have you looked in a mirror lately? However, this is not a post about immodest apparel or even one about judging people by what they are wearing or even what they are doing. It’s so easy to do that and come away from it thinking that we are better somehow than others. It is a post about something that has been occupying my mind a…
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A Smile, A Thought, & A Tear
As many of you know, I love humor. I enjoy a good, clean joke. I enjoy being around people who can share humorous experiences. I just love to laugh and I love to be around people who laugh. I even enjoy laughing at myself. When you mess up and do as many stupid things as I do, that’s not a bad trait to have. It seems to me that, sometimes, the most effective humor contains a kernel of truth. There are times when there is much more than merely that kernel. There are times when humor can make a person stop and think. There are even times when that thinking causes a person to think seriously and…
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10 Rules for Happier Living
I was going through some “online files” recently and found the material below. I wish I knew the source of this, but I do not. Somebody besides me deserves the credit. I realize that this post is shorter than normal, but I know somebody who needs to read and heed it. I see him every time I look into the mirror. Maybe this will be of benefit to you as well. — Jim Faughn —————– Ten Rules for Happier Living 1. Give something away (no strings attached). 2. Do a kindness (and forget it). 3. Spend a few minutes with the aged (their experience is a priceless guidance). 4. Look intently into…
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Episode 137: 4 Communication Barriers in Marriage [Podcast]
https://media.blubrry.com/faughnfamily/content.blubrry.com/faughnfamily/Legacy_Podcast_137.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: RSS (Player not displaying or working? Click here to listen.) Communication is a key to any relationship, including marriage. On this podcast, Adam and Leah use a list found in this article to discuss four common–and dangerous–communication barriers that couples must try to avoid and work through. Resource “The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling” [The Gottman Institute] To Learn More about Adam and Leah’s Parenting Seminars, Click Here
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The Devil is After Me!
I know a lot of people say that the devil is after them in a joking way. I’m not joking! For several months now, I have felt like I am under attack, and, no matter how hard I try, it still seems like the devil is right there just two steps behind me and has me in his sights. I know I’m not alone in the way I am feeling because when I spend any time on Facebook, I see this same sentiment (or something like it) from many of my friends and acquaintances. I know the Bible descriptions of how Satan comes after us, “…Your adversary, the devil, prowls around…
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Can I Be a Christian and a Patriot?
We are living in times where there is a powerful tug-of-war over huge issues. Even Christians are debating things that are, thankfully, causing a great deal of study and thought. We dare not just answer with our own opinions or with concepts that have not been studied in light of Scripture. One of those issues is patriotism. In an election year, that issue is always heightened, but also, with the great civic and social unrest of the last few months, this discussion has only gained more traction. Honestly, these are the types of issues we need to consider deeply, and often. The truth is quite nuanced, I believe. This post…
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Not Merely a Sign of Age
What do the following have in common? The year of a devastating flood in our areaThe year of my birthThe year of John F. Kennedy’s assassinationThe year of our oldest child’s birthThe year of the events we now refer to as “9-11”The year during which people are dealing with Covid-19 Here are some hints. My parents lived through what those of that generation who are still with us refer to as “the ‘37 flood.” Since that was a little more than a decade before I was born, it really doesn’t mean as much to me as it did to those who experienced it. What was reality for them is history for me.…
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Legacy Recipe: Skroodle Salad
I have finished Cousins’ Camp 2020 and now I am preparing to go video my lessons for Polishing the Pulpit on Monday and Tuesday. Then we will travel to Louisville for Jim to speak on Wednesday night. After that we will FINALLY be celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary with a trip to a Bed and Breakfast in the mountains…so I’m packing for that trip, too. I said all of that to say that it is time for another recipe for my post this week. It is a delicious cool summer salad that is a full meal within itself. I got the recipe years ago from a newspaper in Metropolis Illinois, my home town. I…
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Find the Good
This title and thought are not original, but in my opinion, they are desperately needed right now. Today’s post is an encouragement to do just what the title says: Find the good. This virus is bad. However, we live in a time of modern medicine with technologies, medications, and practices on which to build a defense and prevention. That is so good! Our society is experiencing some bad things. However, we still live in one of the richest nations on earth with running water, a network of roads on which to travel, modern conveniences with which to entertain ourselves, and any number of things to help offset our struggles. Isn’t…
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One Thing We Must Never Cancel
Over the last few months, the word “cancel” has been heard more times than I can remember. Young people had graduations cancelled. Youth groups across the country had Lads to Leaders cancelled. Camps, vacations, dentist appointments…cancelled, cancelled, cancelled. Even worship services–either in-person or even all together–were cancelled. Then, of course, the term leapt into our social world with the so-called “cancel culture.” As political and social unrest have seemingly come in waves, everything from actors to cartoons have been “cancelled.” It seems as if everything around us has been cancelled in some fashion over the past few months, or has threatened to be shut down anyway. Some, in the long…