When Someone Responds

As a preacher, I pray often for people to respond to the invitation. I do not pray that for some ego trip, but because people need to come to the Lord, and the invitation is a wonderful time for someone to respond. Others are present and can encourage, and it is also an encouragement to them to see these responses.

However, what should do when someone responds, either to be baptized or in need of prayers? I want to give a few practical suggestions. These are not “book, chapter, and verse” commands; rather, they are practical principles that will help this be a joyful time.

1. Go Get Them! This one is for those who stand down front during the invitation song. By this I mean, do not wait for someone to come all the way down the aisle before shaking their hand or giving a hug. As soon as you see someone heading down, go up the aisle and put your arm around them. It takes courage to step out and come forward. Walk with that person to help encourage them and put them at ease.

2. Take Your Time. I know that for some, it can seem a bit awkward while the preacher or an elder talks with someone. The room is silent, and we can wonder if it is taking “too long.” It isn’t! This is the most important thing someone will ever do. Take your time listening if you are the one with them. If you are in the crowd, pray. Pray for this person, and pray words of gratitude and praise to God for this moment.

3. Act Like You’ve Been There Before. Sometimes, it may have been awhile since there was a public response, but we should not act like it has never happened! Know the policy for helping someone to the baptistry. Where are the clothes? Who will assist in changing? Will someone lead songs or a prayer? If you must, have a written out policy, but this should be done with complete excellence! If someone is seeking prayers, know who will lead the prayer. Will it be you? An elder? This should be organized and done with excellence.

4. Encourage People to Stay. A few weeks ago, I pleaded with our folks at 9th Avenue not to leave as soon as the “amen” was said after someone had responded. In fact, I changed my own personal policy of going to the back doors, choosing instead to stay down front as a visual way of encouraging more people to stay around. This moment is worth a few extra minutes to encourage. It is wonderful to see streams of people waiting for a moment to give a hug or a word of encouragement.

5. Celebrate. There should still be dignity, but this is not a funeral (except to the old person of sin!). This is a resurrection! It is a reunion! It is a joyful time! Smiles, songs, prayers…whatever is still “decent and in order” should be used to celebrate this moment. Further, let it be known through the bulletin as well as on social media. Spread this wonderful news.

These are just a few suggestions. We need to remember the importance and the joy of this moment, and treasure when it occurs.

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Author: Adam Faughn

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