Our Responsibility to Our Elders

When a congregation is getting ready to possibly appoint new elders, the people usually have some sort of study about that subject. Maybe they have a sermon–or several–on the qualifications of elders. Maybe the Bible classes take a few weeks to really discuss the roles that elders play. Maybe there is a study of the several New Testament words for that office.

Rarely, though, do we discuss what a congregation’s role is toward the elders. And the Bible makes it clear: we have a responsibility.

Hebrews 13 speaks of it twice.

Remember your leaders, those who spoke to you the word of God. Consider the outcome of their way of life, and imitate their faith. (verse 7)

Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you. (verse 17)

Obviously, if I am the one who is always a thorn in the side of the elders, or who is always stirring up trouble, I am in clear violation of Scripture.

But there is more. Have a correct relationship with the elders is not just about what I don’t do…it’s about what I do.

What can I do to truly show my shepherds my love and support? Here are a few suggestions.

1. Pray for them. Take their names individually before God, but also take them as a group to His throne. Considering the weight of the office, elders need regular prayers.
2. Speak words of appreciation. If there is any work where a “thank you” goes a long way, it is the work of an elder. Don’t just assume they know you are grateful. Let them know it.
3. Get to know them better. For some reason, there are some Christians who stop building a relationship with a man once he becomes an elder. Though he has a very important role, he is still a person. He still enjoys relationships and friendship. Continue to build those.
4. Be active in the work of the Church. Elders should be able to dream of ways to grow the congregation and her mission works, but too often, they have to spend their time trying to figure out why “our own folks” aren’t showing up to things. Your attendance and activity is a great encouragement to the elders and frees them up to dream more.
5. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Unless they are clearly violating a Biblical directive (in which case, they shouldn’t be elders in the first place), you need to submit to their leadership. Have elders made decisions before that I wasn’t in total agreement with? Of course, but they are older, wiser, and have my soul’s best interest at heart. What more could I ask for!
6. Speak well of them around others. I sometimes joke with the folks at Lebanon Road that, for some Christians, Sunday lunch consists of roast elder. I wish that joke wasn’t grounded in truth. If we are going to help the Lord’s Church grow, we must speak well of our leaders. After all, who would want to be part of something where the followers are always questioning the leaders?
7. Honor them. Whenever you can praise the elders, do so. Don’t wait until one resigns or dies to show him honor. We are commanded in Scripture to give honor to whom it is due. If there is anyone on this earth who deserves honor, it is the men who are humble, godly shepherds.

I have been honored to serve under wonderful men in each work I have been involved in. They are not perfect–and they would be the first to admit that–but they love the Lord and they want us all to go to heaven together. I thank them.

QUESTION: What are some other ways to live out our responsibilities to elders? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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