Family

  • Family,  Parenting

    Cousins’ Camp 2021

    Cousins’ Camp 2021 is in the books! Memorial Day weekend was a good choice because of the holiday on Monday which let all of the adults be with us for all of the days. We shortened it a little this year, mainly because things have gotten back to normal and their camps and Summer Youth Series will be held this year. (And besides that, a full week nearly killed me last year!) All of our grandchildren are teens except for our oldest who is 20 years old. You might think that they would be thinking that they are getting too old for Cousins’ Camp. You could not be any more wrong! They love being together,…

  • Family

    Who’s Dolly?

    Our second grandson is about to be a senior in high school. A recent trip that his Grammy and I made to the Sevierville/Pigeon Forge area in Tennessee reminded me of something that I did with him toward the end of his fourth grade year. I’m not sure about how or why all of this worked the way it did, but I drove from where we live in Paducah, KY to where our daughter and her family live in Cookeville, TN. I’m not sure, but I may have spent the night there. However all of that worked out, I took our grandson from Cookeville on one of those “end of the year school…

  • Church Life,  Family

    Why Do You Listen To Him?

    A part of my usual morning routine–at least on Monday through Friday–is listening to a podcast by a man with whom I disagree on some very important doctrinal positions. While those positions are discussed from time to time, most of his podcast has to do with current events and various social and societal matters from what he calls a “Christian worldview.”   I’m well aware of the fact that some may ask the question in the title: “Why do you listen to him?” Why, indeed, would I listen to a person with whom I don’t totally agree? Lately, I’ve been giving some thought to that question. I’ve also given some thought to…

  • Church Life,  Family

    We Must Judge…But Carefully

    Judging is very difficult, because it requires a hard balance. Some think we should make no judgments at all, because that is loving. (Although they don’t recognize the irony in that, because they have made a judgment to decide they should not judge.) Others are too quick to judge about everything. (They are often seen stalking in the comments section of your social media accounts.) An example of the latter occurred recently in the Canadian province of Nova Scotia. Local police were tipped off that someone was violating covid-19 lockdown orders and sitting inside a restaurant. The tip was sent in because, in that location, no restaurants were to be…

  • Church Life,  Family

    What’s Up With a Good Relationship?

    Hopefully, all of us value the relationships we have with others. Whether we are talking about family, friends, neighbors, people at work, or other kinds of interactions we may have, a good, healthy relationship with others blesses us in so many ways.   I’ve been doing some thinking lately about how valuable these relationships are. I’ve also been thinking about how I can do what I can to enhance those relationships. You will probably be able to add to what I’ve come up with, but here are some things that I think are vitally important. Wake up I need to wake up to the value of the people who are dear to me. I…

  • Church Life,  Family

    Preparing for One Graduation

    A young man in North Carolina took the slowness of the covid-19 pandemic in stride. Since his classes were online, he decided to take as many as he could, and also took some online classes from a community college. (If my understanding is correct, some of the classes counted for both his high school and college.) So, on May 21, he will be receiving an associate’s degree from his local community college and seven days later, will receive his high school diploma. Oh, the boy…is twelve years old! [Source] I had a lot of reactions to that story, not the least of which was wondering what I was doing when…

  • Church Life,  Family

    My (In)famous Church Camp Director’s Cap

    For a number of years, I served as the director of one session of a church camp in southeast Missouri (Bootheel Youth Camp). Every once in a while, I’d break out my “official church camp director’s cap.” It was a different color than the one in the picture above, but it contained the same message (“I’m their leader; which way did they go?”). I usually didn’t wear the cap long. I just wore it long enough to get about all of the laughs I thought I could get and then “retired it” until another session of camp. I was very happy when it came time for the “retirement” because I do not like wearing…

  • Church Life,  Family

    When Seeing Red Is A Good Thing

    The phrase “seeing red” usually has a negative connotation. If somebody tells you that they are seeing red, it would probably be a good idea to avoid them for a while until they can (to use another well-worn phrase) “cool down.” I would like to suggest that there are some ways to “see red” that might be helpful. They may be helpful as we relate to others and as we consider the most important relationship we need to have. I am writing these words during a time when our country is very divided. I’m old enough to remember other times we were divided by political ideologies, racial tensions, our nation’s involvement in various…

  • Family,  Marriage

    A Tell-Tale Sign of Marriage Problems

    Since I am a preacher, it will not surprise you that, from time-to-time, couples come to me asking for some help. In my experience, it is usually more “informal,” where we just talk about something in a casual conversation. There are times, though, when a couple wants to meet for “counseling” (I use quotation marks because I am not a formal, licensed counselor). I am always nervous about these meetings, but glad to try to help where I can. Typically, I do a whole lot more listening than talking. It is in this listening that one clear sign of marital problems often emerges. In fact, as I’m writing this, I…

  • Family

    Golden Rights of Senior Americans

    Those of us of“a certain age” remember Art Linkletter. He is best known for his humor. He was really good at getting young children to say funny things.   I read a book years ago written by Mr. Linkletter that contained a lot of very serious material regarding senior citizens. While the title sounds a little humorous, much of the material is not. One of the things I’ve kept in my files for years is what he called “Golden Rights of Senior Americans.” I’ve decided to share his thoughts here for your consideration. *** “Golden Rights of Senior Americans” from OLD AGE IS NOT FOR SISSIES by Art Linkletter Irrespective of individual status or achievement, Senior…