Family

  • Church Life,  Family

    How Close Are You?

    How often have you heard a statement that “stopped you in your tracks” and really caused you to think? Please allow me to share with you one such statement that had that impact on me. The statement was only one sentence in a sermon delivered by a preacher, but the impact was so strong that I still remember it years after I heard it. It was also strong enough to make me forget everything else that was said during that sermon. Here, in its entirety is that statement:  “You, at this very moment, are as close to God as you have chosen to be.” Could that possibly be true? Is it not…

  • Family,  Family Finances,  Legacy of Faith Podcast,  Marriage,  Parenting

    Episode 138: Masks Too Many Families Wear [Podcast]

    https://media.blubrry.com/faughnfamily/content.blubrry.com/faughnfamily/Legacy_Podcast_138.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: RSS (Player not displaying or working? Click here to listen.) During the pandemic, people have been wearing literal masks. Often, however, people–and families–put on masks of a different sort, and it leads to some unhealthy places. Adam and Leah talk about three areas–marriage, parenting, and finances–in which we can be tempted to wear masks as a family. Click Here to Learn about Adam and Leahs’s Parenting Seminar

  • Church Life,  Family

    Have You Looked in the Mirror Lately?

    Jim and I went out for breakfast recently and, while we were enjoying our breakfast, a woman came in who, I would guess, was middle aged. She was rather large and was wearing really short shorts and a skimpy top. The thought crossed my mind – have you looked in a mirror lately? However, this is not a post about immodest apparel or even one about judging people by what they are wearing or even what they are doing. It’s so easy to do that and come away from it thinking that we are better somehow than others. It is a post about something that has been occupying my mind a…

  • Church Life,  Family

    A Smile, A Thought, & A Tear

    As many of you know, I love humor. I enjoy a good, clean joke. I enjoy being around people who can share humorous experiences. I just love to laugh and I love to be around people who laugh.   I even enjoy laughing at myself. When you mess up and do as many stupid things as I do, that’s not a bad trait to have. It seems to me that, sometimes, the most effective humor contains a kernel of truth. There are times when there is much more than merely that kernel. There are times when humor can make a person stop and think. There are even times when that thinking causes a person to think seriously and…

  • Church Life,  Family

    10 Rules for Happier Living

    I was going through some “online files” recently and found the material below. I wish I knew the source of this, but I do not. Somebody besides me deserves the credit.  I realize that this post is shorter than normal, but I know somebody who needs to read and heed it. I see him every time I look into the mirror.   Maybe this will be of benefit to you as well. — Jim Faughn —————– Ten Rules for Happier Living 1. Give something away (no strings attached). 2. Do a kindness (and forget it). 3. Spend a few minutes with the aged (their experience is a priceless guidance). 4. Look intently into…

  • Family,  Legacy of Faith Podcast,  Marriage

    Episode 137: 4 Communication Barriers in Marriage [Podcast]

    https://media.blubrry.com/faughnfamily/content.blubrry.com/faughnfamily/Legacy_Podcast_137.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | DownloadSubscribe: RSS (Player not displaying or working? Click here to listen.) Communication is a key to any relationship, including marriage. On this podcast, Adam and Leah use a list found in this article to discuss four common–and dangerous–communication barriers that couples must try to avoid and work through. Resource “The Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling” [The Gottman Institute] To Learn More about Adam and Leah’s Parenting Seminars, Click Here

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  • Church Life,  Family

    The Devil is After Me!

    I know a lot of people say that the devil is after them in a joking way. I’m not joking! For several months now, I have felt like I am under attack, and, no matter how hard I try, it still seems like the devil is right there just two steps behind me and has me in his sights. I know I’m not alone in the way I am feeling because when I spend any time on Facebook, I see this same sentiment (or something like it) from many of my friends and acquaintances.   I know the Bible descriptions of how Satan comes after us, “…Your adversary, the devil, prowls around…

  • Church Life,  Family,  Parenting

    Can I Be a Christian and a Patriot?

    We are living in times where there is a powerful tug-of-war over huge issues. Even Christians are debating things that are, thankfully, causing a great deal of study and thought. We dare not just answer with our own opinions or with concepts that have not been studied in light of Scripture. One of those issues is patriotism. In an election year, that issue is always heightened, but also, with the great civic and social unrest of the last few months, this discussion has only gained more traction. Honestly, these are the types of issues we need to consider deeply, and often. The truth is quite nuanced, I believe. This post…

  • Church Life,  Family

    Not Merely a Sign of Age

    What do the following have in common? The year of a devastating flood in our areaThe year of my birthThe year of John F. Kennedy’s assassinationThe year of our oldest child’s birthThe year of the events we now refer to as “9-11”The year during which people are dealing with Covid-19 Here are some  hints. My parents lived through what those of that generation who are still with us refer to as “the ‘37 flood.” Since that was a little more than a decade before I was born, it really doesn’t mean as much to me as it did to those who experienced it. What was reality for them is history for me.…

  • Family,  Recipies

    Legacy Recipe: Skroodle Salad

    I have finished Cousins’ Camp 2020 and now I am preparing to go video my lessons for Polishing the Pulpit on Monday and Tuesday. Then we will travel to Louisville for Jim to speak on Wednesday night. After that we will FINALLY be celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary with a trip to a Bed and Breakfast in the mountains…so I’m packing for that trip, too.   I said all of that to say that it is time for another recipe for my post this week. It is a delicious cool summer salad that is a full meal within itself. I got the recipe years ago from a newspaper in Metropolis Illinois, my home town. I…